Finding Right Man in Right Time

Sebagai perempuan, saya 'gatal' ingin menulis topik ini. Usia kepala dua adalah masa kejayaan, masa dimana tidak hanya cita-cita dan mimpi yang dikejar, tapi juga sebuah cinta sejati. Cie...

Dan pada dasarnya, perempuan menjadi lebih rentan pada hal-hal yang berbau perasaan. So you should read this, learn something from here, then find out your man, not your boy(friend).

Saya menjumpai sendiri banyak kisah cinta yang berakhir di umur 20an, tapi tak jarang juga kisah yang justru baru dimulai saat itu. Jangan khawatir jangan risau, ambil hikmahnya: he is not for you, you're deserve better or if you think your last partner is better enough but your relationship still comes to end, it means that it's not the right time. You and your ex-partner just meet in wrong timing. Be easy (altough passing it isn't as easy as I said, it needs time, trust me I've been there before but I was still survive then).

Menurut Jenna Lowthert, ada 18 perbedaan antara "MAN" dan "BOY", check it out.

1. A MAN takes responsibility for his actions, a BOY makes excuses for his actions.
2. A MAN lifts you up when you’re feeling down, a BOY kicks you while you’re down.
3. A MAN wants to please one WOMAN, a BOY wants a hundred GIRLS to please him.
4. A MAN has gentlemen like qualities, a BOY has “swag”.
5. A MAN walks beside you, a BOY walks 20 steps ahead of you.
6. A MAN expresses his true feelings and shows his emotions, a BOY hides his feelings and tries to be “tough”
7. A MAN can recognize a woman’s worth, a BOY doesn’t know a good woman when she is right before his eyes.
8. A MAN always tells the truth, a BOY lies, cheats, and deceives.
9. A BOY plays games, a MAN doesn’t have that kind of time.
10. A MAN sticks to his word, a BOY breaks promises.
11. A MAN doesn’t kiss and hug then tell the people, a BOY lets the whole damn town know who he’s been with.
12. A MAN has respect, a BOY doesn’t really understand the true meanings of that word.
13. A MAN has a vision and sets goals, a BOY can’t see past tomorrow.
14. A MAN explains himself if he has a change of a heart, a BOY just walks away.
15. A BOY speaks, a MAN acts.
16. A MAN sees what he wants and earns it, a BOY sees what he wants and tries to take it.
17. A MAN does what needs to be done, a BOY does what he wants to be done.
18. A BOY plays house, a MAN makes a home.
19. A MAN is confident in himself, a BOY is cocky. 

And last but not least, a man reads this without getting offended

Jadi sekarang tengoklah dengan siapa kamu menjalani kisah merah jambumu, termasuk kelompok manakah dia. Dan jangan habiskan waktu lamamu untuk mengulang lagi kesalahan -jika sebelumnya kamu pernah jatuh di lubang kesalahan- 

Bukankah jauh lebih baik menghabiskan waktu bersama dengan pasangan halalmu? Menjadikan setiap sentuhan, tatapan, perkataan, dan tindakan menjadi ibadah. Ayooo get up girls! 

Dan begitu juga para laki-laki di luar sana, umur 20an akan menggiring mereka pada kedewasaan seiring bertambahnya usia. Wanita yang mereka cari tentu bukan lagi 'cuma' cantik, gaya, modis, keren. Tapi laki-laki yang siap menjadi suami itu akan mencari wanita yang sederhana tapi menarik, yang mandiri tapi mampu bersikap lembut untuknya, berwawasan untuk diajak diskusi, tidak membosankan karena cepat marah, wanita yang lucu dan menyenangkan, mendukung bukan melulu menuntut, dan memahami bahwa pasangannya berhak mendapatkan versi terbaik dari dirinya.

Good luck my dearest girls...

Pantaskan dirimu dan tunggulah seorang laki-laki tepat akan datang exactly di waktu yang tepat.